Street Direct Game
This contribution is to much of an achievement of Regular John.
conditions:
- you can easily with any person maintain eye contact
- 2 eggs were not bad
preparation:
you draw no way to war, even if some of you would do better than to address a woman. Their heads off to have fun. Therefore
take your cell phone and some (chewing) gum with and off you go.
may bring an MP3 player.
drive to use public transportation, so you you get used to the crowds.
forget it, to look at your clock or on a schedule.
Just ask the people. They are friendly and eager to answer you.
way you interact with your environment from the beginning.
If your response fear when:
you Take quietly for half an hour.
Put on the headphones from your MP3 player.
Enjoy your favorite music.
walks through the streets and keep all passers
especially women,
friendly but determined eye contact.
You will see that men and unattractive women are doing just
in you nothing but
at attractive women ... because you feel these feelings,
this urge to talk to her, this feeling
what is all the more stronger, more viable
the woman is, what
this feeling is getting stronger, the closer you come
the woman.
All you have to do is to "stop" to say
and headphones to decrease.
The more you think about it, the more you discover this alleged
Ansprechangst in reality
you, deep in your subconscious, is an urge,
attract attractive women.
This "Bähm" feeling.
accept and love that feeling. produce
Before I Approach
eye contact.
go slow on the woman.
If she answers your eye contact, smiling slightly
.
II Stop
Here you have several options.
important thing is that your case equally dominant,
as well as friendly since.
a) Stop
(where a hand motion similar to a police officer who stops a car) b
) "Sorry"
(where the hand is pointing down and the palm is turned up,
this is originally a gesture showing that their unarmed / dangerous since)
If necessary, it is absolutely fine when stopping to lean slightly to the inside
and to the woman something obstructing the direct way.
After the woman has stopped, you should immediately you slightly lean back. This shows her that you do not intrusive since.
Now you can about an arm's length from her stay
or present you to her side, shoulder to shoulder.
If your side you will, is the distance to the very small woman, she feels that without
concentrated.
cinema in this way is also natural.
you did not you married the woman to speak directly helps variant c)
c) "Sorry, I have not dared to speak before you, but
I can not let you go without having told you, dass .. "
(this option is very natural, and is particularly suitable for the advanced, get to hear the
often if they had practiced it)
III Pause
is very important to take a break, the woman is the possibility to adjust to you.
a) "I know I like to touch you in the middle of the street"
b) "Even if I do it right in the middle of the road reach a"
c) "You certainly have to continue the same and hey, I must also continue the same"
IV Qualify / blaming
The qualifying is very important when direct game, so the wife knows the reason, why have you addressed them.
a) "I think you have what, I do not know yet what, but I'm going to find it"
b) "I think you have a great charisma"
c) "Wow, you're sweet"
d) "How can You answer for it to be so sexy.
V Presentation
"I will / will meet you ... I'm NeRom "(handshake and a little longer time,
keep a friendly eye contact as she calls her name)
respond
95% of women the thing positive to very positive, although they were apparently
bad mood before the approach.
principle here: The more attractive the woman, the more positive the reaction.
The remaining women had either a shit day, or are
LSE and can not handle compliments.
I glad that you've sorted out so quickly these women.
VI Attraction Attraction
have you been through the Direct Approach
dominant and friendly and your Body Language.
VII report
Basic rapport you can establish very quickly and easily.
a) has responded positively and smiles
"Hey Sara, you know what? Look at all the times people who are bad-tempered over the place running, lowered head down and the view ... However, you're standing in front of me and smile. I think you're (like me) a very positive person. "
(Where you stand sideways next to her. Look in the same direction as them. Touched with one hand her back. Displays with the other hand to the crowd.)
b) reacted sceptically
"Hey Sara, I think you're a man of first reacts cautiously and monitored. To me it's just as if I'm meeting new people. "
By now, the ice will be broken.
VIII isolate
you can at any time during the woman Approaches isolated easily by you say, "Hey, I think we the people stand in your way. We should just go once to the side. "
IX" I have a friend "
this phrase you will often hear the direct game.
It can mean:
a) Lack of Attraction / Rapport
b) Shit-Test
c) She has a friend
solutions
If that sentence after trying to Close it, it is likely
variant a) and you have in your set yet
invest some time in rapport-building.
Attraction is also a Question of the broadcast.
This comes automatically with each set, what do you do.
Do you think that it is a shit test, submits
?. So what, do I, "
Do you think that you really a friend,
refers briefly to your reality:
" Hey, I You also will not steal
/ take it to you, but you know. "
X Close
a) No attempt.
The worst variant. You have made this pretty girl and now hopes
you drop it just like a hot potato.
How can you even still night sleep?
b) NC
weak because you have to enter on the phone again from scratch in the game.
"I have now, unfortunately, continue, but would I see you again unconditionally"
(hold out cell phone, type in numbers can)
If they will not give her number:
aa) "Do not worry, I am calling only 30 times a day. "
(In order for your points to a C & F-type that you understand your reality and not a stalker since
)
bb)" I want you to know really. "
(Persistence often leads to success)
cc) before NC: (friendly) "I'll call you only once.
Unless you go ran, expecting I want You Recall "
(keep your sets the frame that you have your principles and the price since)
c) Instant-Date
The best option, where you can your game on and on. Since
makes your direct game, can you do here, what you feel like.
"Hey, You make me curious ... read us go drink a coffee"
leads her to a coffee shop.
XI calibration
calibration is the most important in the direct game.
is helpful to have a wing that you can provide feedback.
Too small voice ensures that the woman does not stand still
and you may be ignored. to
A loud voice can make sure that you feel uncomfortable when all the passers-by noticed the
Approach.
ideal is a normal voice, security and tranquility. Also
on your body language should take your wing, for example, you want your rejects
not always pure.
is important, once the woman has stopped, the
you take your time, but, say what you want. Otherwise it looks
hectic or as if you've learned it by heart.
XII Other
course you can always Smalltalk, C &F; apply cold reading, etc., as it adjusts to your
Still the best.
Experiment with frames, for example, "Wow, this woman wants to know I really";
"What a nice man," "You want to kiss me" etc.
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