Let's Just Be Friends ( LJBF ) content
0.0 Preface
1.0 I've since such girl met
1.1 In the end we were but then just friends
1.2 What I do wrong?
1.3 I can get them still useable yet? 1.4 Non
I wanted to destroy everything
The important part:
2.0 Why is escalating so important
3.0 When to escalate?
4.0 How do I calibrate the escalation right?
5.0 Why you should not use ICQ, MSN, Skype and Co.
0.0 Preface
Bonas Notches Amigos el Progressivo Seduction,
In this thread I would like to address two things. There are also things that I have done wrong in the past. Today, only from its interests. It is about time to escalate and for real escalation.
1.0 because I have met a girl like
This is a familiar story as it already provides some experienced among you. It reads as follows: You know, last, because I have so learned to know a girl. It was so great. I've really approached, I drove a good Eyegame, I have attracted very good and everything was cool. I I also very much rapport established. I knew 100% that they wanted to sleep with me. I did not want to cross immediately because I was not married, I wanted to do the next day. But then the next day we just talk, but she was still attracted, we talked a lot about sex and all the trimmings, she was attracted. I did not like it then that evening we had plenty of time.
1.1 In the end we were just friends but then
All went as far as the same. But then to say one day when I had taken the courage at last we finally told her to do something more they only "You I think you're really great and we have so much fun, but I think it would somehow not good when we have sex, you understand that?"
course, our test subject understands nothing. It was all so good. Why they will not have sex?
1.2 What did I do wrong?
What the good man was so wrong? His mistake was that he has not escalated. He did not escalate the situation used for the right time, but let them pass by.
1.3 I can get them still useable yet?
There is at least difficult. The whole can help to cool down -> to say such a freezeout. The only thing he can do so is that he can only take some time and then starts over again and this time it escalated to the right time.
1.4 I did not want to ruin everything
That's where the octopus is buried. He had not the courage to escalate to. He has not dared to stake everything on a card to have sex with her. You have not done the right moment the right because then you were afraid of losing the woman. Maybe you're not just doing it simply because you have any limiting Gerd had views of the situation ("No, not today, today I do not look so good," etc.).
2.0 escalate Why is it so important
Escalate is important because it shows you the woman the courage have to do something that would do only a few men. It shows women that you trust yourself, and this is a very important point. Maybe they'd like to still useable sleep with you. But how can they trust you if you do not even trust yourself? This is exactly the point! It shows her that you are confident and they can trust you because you have made experiences with such situations and it is with you may have had to abandon that you do the wrong without fear.
Plus, you can not just jump up after 9 hours of time with her and your cock to stop ramming into the neck. You must esklalieren piece by piece. for first kiss back, then to make out, then to BJ or HJ etc. The important thing is that you do not body and mind separate. This means that you are incorporating more with their bodies and minds in the dialogue. Just so you
go forth and even throws a wild stranger to the nearest couch and fucks them with easy, without having first spoken to her only a word, or to build rapport without have (There are, of course, seduction experts, the report only with the help of Attraction and body language and their eyes can build, but that we want to bide their time outside).
seduction is always the temptation of body and mind. So if you think she is ready to kiss and the signals are there, then do not hesitate. Be a man and kiss her, to take responsibility for it, they will do so only in rare cases. You must have the courage to escalate.
- You decide when and if you kiss her!
- You decide when and if you make out with her!
- You decide when and whether you will have sex!
3.0 When to escalate?
Because it is so often the women even if they did not just say "Oh yeah baby, you do gymnastics at that, we come fuck go!" . You have to escalate the responsibility. If you have the feeling that she wants it then do it! you will not do it! There is a certain time window in which you have the chance to escalate in which you have the chance to kiss / lick / to touch the Tits fuck, but you have to seize this opportunity! She comes once, maximum twice! Then it's over ! Off! End! The time window for the escalation is too! You could have had it, but you did not egriffen the chance.
egreife therefore always the chance if they ask themselves. Fuck it what you tell your mind straight back for a weak sense of look because you are not good enough or something. Egreife the chance, you get what you both want. Show her that you are different than the twenty washcloth in front of you the full can have slept through their lives.
If there is the chance they egreife! (Yes, even figuratively speaking * lol *) Do not make the mistake that many people their whole lives to make their big break while waiting for other opportunities Sausser can. You are the man, you will eskaliren and the responsibility for your actions and take over everything, what happens next.
you will make the decision for her and show her so that you (insert name) ___________ have the courage to take to you what you want and what you deserve!
4.0 How do I calibrate the escalation right?
It's like almost everything in the art of seduction important that you correct kalibrierst (Alter! -> I could not keep back). You can not just start a KC if their whole fan club standing around them. She would never do something in the eyes of their friends is not correct. I bet you that you have already read somewhere else, but do play really thought about what it means, I wait so long ...
... so now it goes on. So you should make sure before you insulate them. That is you must separate them from their friends, so they can be free and uninhibited. It will do many things much more if they just knows that it will never find someone.
be no accident that women leave more of a time having sex or gang bangs and other more "immoral" things as they are at home where they each knows. The reason is simply that it is experienced later one ever (except maybe people use the Youporn). You can therefore enable the pig out (or let in who they find it cool * lol *) and must not worry that someone finds it out and then something bad is thinking about them or says.
Yes this whole The woman-the-much-has-sex-is-a-bitch-and-less-valuable-than-other-women-only-because-it-fun-to-something-that- very-normal-is-setting has I find to throw up, but it is now once unfortunately in many countries around the world (apart from Raiser country that is at my apartment).
Another example of this:
I was once in a disco. I was with some friends there, including one girl was there that stood for some time on me (yes I know, grammatically correct it should say "has been on me" * laughs *). And in any event later in the evening or early in the morning she wanted to dance with me. I was already slightly drunk. I wanted to dance their ass when they pressed on my tail. And I told her then:
Raiser: "Turn around, I want to feel your hot ass"
made it without any words or Shit tests or whatever. But then came the error. Since I was a little drunk, I'm totally the verafft I've no was properly insulated, but that all their friends and friends were dancing so close to us as well. I put my hands around her waist and walked slowly down her Talie remains high and covers her breasts with both hands and pressed lightly, I knew you like it. They were all around us anyway, drunk or tired, too and we both cared so little if anyone watched it first because the other before all busy with themselves and their partners were. But then suddenly I felt the gaze of a their girlfriends and they probably also at the same time, they turned around, I had to at the time still her tits in his hand and gave me a fully popped. BÄM . Since the alk at the time a little better had I realized the pain is not, but it has not really been beaten. As I said, how drunk was I thought nothing of it, we danced I fast on her tits again and again to the BÄM * laughs *.
Later when we were alone she has apologized and blah blah. And since it was clear to me. I had calibrated shit, I did not pay attention they can not possibly be making out of me at her tits when ale her friends watch. so what could the poor think of her.
why it is extremely important that you kalibrierst the escalation right!
5.0 Why you should not use ICQ, MSN, Skype and Co.
not understand me wrong. Yahoo and all the nonsense it is clear if you still want to make short take place where and when the date is, but ICQ and Co. can never replace a Date!
I will briefly explain why work seductions of ICQ, MSN and Skype can not. The problem is that one there is different. When I was young I've also used occasionally ICQ, I admit it. Just because it can be quite nasty surprises to come. Girls in the Textcom. tell all the time so I blow so good and bla bla, placed themselves in real life, but then out rather than disappointment. There were exceptions, no question. But it is just because the ICQ certain things can not get across. Things like:
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emotions - body language
- facial expressions
- touch
- This certain something between you and flirt with the girl do
It may be that one a female in the ICQ mega attracted and everything. But then when you meet, that is the disappointment often large. For the man (and especially the female human) tends to all that is empty to fill with something. How did Supremus (Great speaker and nice spirit from the defineyourlife Forum and a major Noble man among the Christians) "The woman has everything the man has nothing," said so beautiful. This means that it has so much to read into you and has shaped up (in her mind) that you simply can not keep up with their fantasy image of you. It's like Enigma or other large PUAs. We interpret as much into it to keep up the the Realtiät can never. Newcomers probably think the Fast Lane is a God-like figure throughout the day is solely the task has to decide between 200 women, which he is now allowing the pleasure to have sex with him (Which would be of course
Pope Leo X: return "Would Jesus today, we would be there that would kill him, just as we would recognize that he is not like we show in which people could record it with the image of the century we have of Jesus. have created? This light gestallt this Gottgestallt dominated the all-Who could take it with it? "
The point is that you in textual communication can not just escalate. You they can not touch or remove her by her hair (the hair on the head). If you do they manage to get in the mode they want sex with you right now, so if you the time window have opened for the successful escalation, then you can not escalate and access. And ruined your attraction which acts on the girl in gigantic (Gigantic is a nice word) degree! Eventually everything is fucked and you are just friends.
Sure, you can also affect anyone on the Internet on such a scale (again, such a nice word) that he is one to the mindless servant. That really went! You can via ICQ umprogramieren a woman so that she becomes your mindless sex slave to you once you see the first time. But we do it? And second: Can DU it? Because if you're so good, something that you can then you have to do it no longer needed it, then you can just go out and dragons.
What should be said in this text?
If you have a chance to escalate, then use them! Use them! It comes iweder not! The opportunity is there once and then it away. Do not listen to your mind but your instincts, you will get what you want. Take responsibility for what you do and do what you become and the woman will open and you let it happen.
Because women know exactly when to trust someone and are willing to completely enter into it. And are not the types do not know what they want and the fear when it comes to the preserves. Tue what YOU want and stand by it and the woman will engage you!
this text I have mainly written for myself, and while writing, I have yet many things become much clearer when you tell him off but could get something I am very, Yeah (rhymes located).
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