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to me the trouble to translate this chapter. Am sure that there are related to the
one or the other quite useful tips.
So much fun and success with it!
Attraction phase
Highlights
first Body language
second A third challenge will
"Instinct competitors' advantage
make 4th Spontaneous and unvorhersebar his fifth
Mysterious his sixth
"Takeaways" and "open loop"
7th Push / Pull
8th Role playing
9th Higher social value demonstrate
10th Desintresse, indifference shows
11th The leadership take
12th C / F & funny comments and themes
13th use "fluff talk" to bridge Attraction tips
14th Storytelling
15th attention to sexual issues
16th Dominance consolidate and deal with shit tests
17th behave with insolent, bad deal
18th "Flakes"
19th "LJBF"
The Attraction phase is of fundamental importance in your interaction with the woman! The open to women, let them qualify and build rapport
is all well and good but if you feel the attraction does not arise when you let it does then
as a new "friend" to win. LJBF country also!
As David DeAngelo saying goes
ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE
There is a subconscious responsive to different traits and behaviors. If you want to hope that a woman simply because you
your presence is what you give, you can hope for a long time. You have to do things their attraction RISE!
You have to show these behaviors.
This is a "how-to guide" is to create attraction. So what you say and do to demonstrate their qualities that you have they attracted
. What is more important than what you say or do, is your attitude and how do you face. So work on your
your INNER GAME AND SETTING and it is soooo not important what you say or do.
Be the ALPHA. In the animal kingdom is the alpha male of the head of the pack. He is paired with the most females in the herd during the beta
animals have a lower status and mate only with few to no females at all. Alpha indicates higher status. You do not
rich, the manager of a large corporation or be a rock star but have the mindset of the Alphas. Since you live in your own reality must be
you realize that you're the King of your REALITY! Believe that you have extremely high social value and you're the King of your
reality and it will be reflected in the interaction with the woman.
tries in the Attraction phase as soon as possible to isolate your target. If you are in an environment where they can be easily distracted
, invites or leads them into an environment in which they can not be distracted so quickly. If you have just met them on a fairly busy street
, invites you for coffee one where you can not so easily be jostled by other people or other circumstances interrupt the attraction
phase or even to stop. If you find them in a noisy club, or invite them out in a quieter area (outdoors or a quiet corner
) and takes you away from your friends. If you find them on the dance floor, she moves away from the crowd.
A note of Attraction Techniques
not overdo the following techniques. There are so many men, the humor and fun in a "change-frame" similar to the
men try to impress women with money set. A few jokes and jokes too much and the woman could be interpreted as a
whether you wanted to spend their drinks. You give it value by you would entertain them. Calibrate everything so that it is you, a part of you and
no show. Be strong, never submissive and be no dance and comedy show. Be cool and relaxed and congruent with these characteristics.
Be playful (especially if you meet the woman for the first time) but it weakens after a few minutes from. Speaks in this phase, but less
when you say something, say something "important" and babbles no shit.
first Body language
A good body language shows that you are not nervous and your body is not twisted.
There are 3 types of body language:
Macho, Good Guy and our friend, the Nice Guy. The macho
take a lot of space for himself and looks as if he were something more than compensate. The Nice Guy tries as little space as possible and to claim
looks uncertain and beta. The macho facade you just like the Nice Guy facade "Kick".
The Good Guy is so good in the middle of the two, reflecting a cool, relaxed image.
your body use
- reclining
- reclaim space for himself (not too much nor too little) rumzappeln
- Not
- and relaxed smiles and again but not all the time. Always smile makes you look insecure
- slow eye movements rumschauen .... even blink and counter in the. Relaxed and you breathe slowly
- eye contact, eye contact, eye contact .... ALWAYS. Used to increase the "triangle sight" to the sexual tension (from one eye to another look, then to the mouth, and repeatedly)
- sit back when the woman speaks. Rarely pure lean!
Use your body language in order to reward them for their behavior and to punish. If she says something you like, a step closer,
it touches your body rotates or more in their direction. If she says something you do not like it leans back even further,
folded his arms, moves further away from it or turn your body away from her.
inches closer and easily penetrates / slowly into YOUR personal space. Moves closer to her and whispers something in her ear when the place where
you're loud. Touched with your lips "accidentally" her ears while her whispers something in his ear.
If you're in a noisy club, your drink to stay close to your chest (ONLY IF YOU SAY YOU WANT SOMETHING IN YOUR EAR) that you
touched "by chance" and gently for a moment with your arm, your chest. It could be that they then start any pointless questions
see that you gotta close again, "her ear!
If you are outside, it does mean that it can be locked in your arm. This is very effective because it looks like it'd be together.
power other solely because of your body language you closely. Run slowly, erect and shoulders thrown back slightly. Run
not easy strides. Feel as if you were the king of France walks the red carpet on the River. Keep your head up and keep
/ initiated much eye contact with other people.
in the set move
Always remember that you set you in the MOTION. Do not go down easy and it's as if rooted as you gamed - it comes across strange.
One thing that ALL good PUA's do that they always remain in motion if they are in the set. Turn around, take a step back, go forward again
, sit down, take the set somewhere else, etc. ..
tonality
The macho, Nice Guy and Good Guy classification applies to the voice quality. A soft voice as (Nice Guy) reflects weakness and nervousness
while an overly loud voice (Macho) reflects uncertainty and overcompensation. What else is important also is that you try
"placeholder" omit (words you say from time to time to reflect while the brain tried what you say next).
last examples, see "shrill, äääh, you know, etc."
to have your voice under control as the strength and security and give people you attention. There you will easily fall a group
control and is a useful skill when you are in a noisy environment like a club or a bar.
is also working to speak slower and deeper. Used .... also .... BREAKS.
body language and tonality - Troubleshooting
There are four major signs reflect the uncertainty:
- to talk fast
your talk should clear. If you speak too fast, it comes as across as would run your mouth and do not know what you want to tell her
.
- nervousness
much more nervous Radiate energy shows a high degree of lack of self confidence - as if you are in your own skin not feeling well or
because of the woman with the nervous are you talking about. If you have this nervous energy, checked your thumb into your ass pockets and leans back to you. You will look
as if you're calm and relaxed even when their inside screaming and raging.
- Laughing at his own jokes
An important point is the laugh at his own jokes. Laugh at your own jokes undermines the humor and makes you look as if you are trying to
very funny. About Let others decide whether something is funny or not. Also if you laugh about things that are not funny
you make a fool of you.
- ticks and rumzappelei
You may indeed calm and confident when talking to WORK a woman but if your foot is unstable or rumklopft on the table it shows that you're
nervous. Is working to put these habits!
pitch changes are an important part in a conversation with the woman. All you want is not the boring type. Play with it!
second Be a challenge
If you ask a woman what you have done yesterday says never " Oh, I was rumgehockt home and I've bored . Says better " I was some stuff to do then work out and I've taken then with NEM friend . Lies prefer if need be. And do not worry, you turn it used to. "Fake it till you make it"
If you call a woman and asks her what makes her straight answers as " I am grad came in the door " or " I am grad on the way 's some things to do .
depends not spend hours on the phone - that shows only that you have nothing better to do with your time. Bring your conversation about the reason for
call to an end, be kind and hangs up. Also tries to be the one who always terminates the call.
If you are not constantly calling her a woman shows her that you are busy and have important things in your life. This will show her that she must
fight for your time. Gets not always be right back after it has tried to reach you.
If you make it out randomly, shows you happy and be kind. Show her that your interest but you have to politely say good night when you were still
have to get something done. This shows her to her that it must work for your time. You do not "easy" are!
As you people shows that you have jobs and activities which it carries out, has you women out on many things.
doubt are you someone who knows what he wants as a result, leadership qualities. You play with the fact that women always want what they can not have and they must fight against your activities. It differentiates you so much from the men chasing it and beg for their time.
It assumes that there are other women in your life must be because otherwise it'd be not so busy. And finally they will be playing their charm
you need to lead away from your other activities - women love challenges.
Let them miss you. To carry this feeling cause you have to be you on one thing clear: The time she spends with you she must be damn mad and without doubt the best they could with no one else. You must be able to be a great and unforgettable experience to do with whomever, wherever, especially when it matters.
It may be for you NEVER the first priority in your life. Always up to the second. Your other priorities could your family, career, friends, what ever be. Let her still hope that they might eventually move to the first place.
try not to attract too much for a woman or to impress. If it seems that you give too much trouble, angebt, etc. you're no longer a challenge for them. You're trying to prove your worth! Be relaxed and let your few words and deeds speak for themselves.
Do not try more than two sentences to say in a conversation before she gives her the opportunity to answer you. And never more than five sentences
if you tell a story.
third "Competitors instinct" to make
to be part of a challenge to Use calls forth the natural instinct of women competitors. Women want what other women have!
married men will be able to tell you that they get more attention from women than they were given as a single. They are a challenge!
If you have a love bite, scratch marks on the back or lipstick on your shirt, etc., tells the women to notice it:
" Well, women mark their Territoium . Shame on you for it or not you apologized for it. You have to justify before any woman you're with the non-bound.
Runs the competitors struggle to achieve even LJBF-girlfriends by her when her friends meet her, says: " I think your girlfriend likes me .
If it entertains you with a woman, let fall their casual comments show that you women have in your life - and possibly something more than just friends with them are. " later another friend comes to me. She did not look NEN movie or something. If it's not creating, I probably still go away . If the conversation goes
towards dating and relationship (And that is it for you they will LEAD) simply says
" When I talk to women entertain and they ask me whether I have a girlfriend, they seem to be quite shocked when I tell them that I'm single "You will recognize the Subkommunikation. She knows that when a woman asks a man if he has a girlfriend, it's a IOI . you know that these women you find attractive. In addition, it creates social proof!
If she asks you if you meet up with other women replied, never directly on it. answer eg " No, only with other men " or " Yes, with thousands - or more honestly, I'm on the toilet while you were a fucked . If they return to you still can not rest, " you Weißst, I meet with many women - I'm picky .. Waiting for your reply Typically they will say something like:" How can you be picky when you meet up with so many women? That makes no sense "By hereby will she win her." If I find a woman who interests me then I will stay with her. I have to meet with different women so I got the chance they have found. Otherwise I would have to stay at home and would never find the woman of my dreams, right? . "So you bring them into a situation where they must answer and you are waiting for their answer. Any reasonable thinking woman will agree with you here.
be spontaneous and fourth unvorhersebar
unpredictability is the key to make them mad predictability you send can be subconscious signals only they feel that their
a man are on you can rely on may -.. only it is not on you not CLEARLY For comparison, one can
imagine an amusement park; predictability as the big wheel Ho Hum Boring Man moves up and on the other side back down .... and... back up ... very slowly
. Nothing unexpected. One look at the area from above. Nice ... but NOT a thrill. Unpredictability - surprise, danger, thrills - which is found in the roller coaster. Setting they race in the front car and bring her heart to! Bring them out of the socket that they
not know what happens next.
5th His mysterious
to be mysterious is not to say that you work at the CIA. It simply means that one is not an open book. If you already at the beginning
know how a movie is over, we all deserve more sooooo not interested. It is the same with mysteriousness and if you are not all equal divulges her stoking the curiosity of the woman and she remains interested in you.
to reduce much "openness" of your page (KILL) your chances of sleeping with her. Too much openness means little self control and this is one of the main points of your
Selbstbvertrauens. It is more better you give too little information. It creates more mysteriousness the
you will benefit (as long as it also carries on its attraction to increase). tell you something negative about you NEVER will increase their positive feelings towards you
. So it is not running. Let some questions unanswered. You can as a reward for their behavior a little trust.
If they're wondering what you make next Saturday: " I can not say .
If they're wondering about something in your past, " I tell you when we know better . (A challenge for them because they must strive for something - your trust, or the details)
If she asks you how many women have slept with her, "Well knew you liked the * haha *"
If they're wondering what makes her next Friday: " is a surprise .
sixth "Take Aways" and "open loop"
takeaways you use if for anything what you do or say most interested in and you abruptly then the subject changes or ceases
to do something, we say she laughs and enjoys the time says you quite unexpectedly... "I have my friends I am in a minute, back to" The
is a Take Away Your body language is open and positively their last talk with her then she leans back and crosses his arms, or you turn around and
guys up with something else. Even the is a Take Away.
Takeaways can be used as Belohnungs-/Bestrafungssystem. Reward positive behavior by their value and give her attention - negative behavior by punishing
Take Away.
Open loops are similar to a takeaway but leave something open. An example of open loop would be to tell a woman: " I wanted you all night even say anything .... Oh wait, I'm grad seen someone I know I'll be right back . or, as she talks to you break them, " is just what I noticed about you . If she asks: "What ? "says:".. ... I'll tell you later get "... smiles and their attempts to ignore it out of you and changes the subject Another example would you call a woman , and the mailbox / answering machine starts, leave the next half message: "Hi HB me is what happened tonight clean fun! I with some friends in the city as a bum came to us was ..... well, call me just to "Here's an example. When you realize that it just starts to care about something special , changes the subject.
The meaning behind the open loop is to the interest of the to awaken women to the outcome and not to betray the rest. Exactly how to do a crappy show continued
looks just to know the outcome. People will listen to your crappy story just to hear how it proceeds. When the output
remains open, they feel cheated and want to know something, it must - it is a little too Macke. This is also the reason why women
over decades on soap operas are stuck, the show has no final conclusion and ends with open loops. Open Loops
cause frustration and the person is longing for relief. By holding back this alleviating to build tension.
Here are some examples of open loop:
"Something about you"
As you told her something, says something like, " I bet you love attention " or " I bet you were always Daddy's Darling . Then tell your story further. Now that you have aroused their interest, they will break you. Power they can not continue to make such comments she swallows the bait. Did she think she is swallowed him, "What does he mean by that?" (Very good for us because it interests them on an emotional level). It is with you then, " What do you mean? " interrupt.
reply here with something like, " your mama taught you no manners, it is rude to drop someone into words but I know this because you matter to me .... I'll tell you later " and tells your story further.
"They will tell you something interesting," says
If they want to you something interesting / exciting / etc. tell it, telling her: " I grad a lot to do why are you telling me that later when we meet .
"numeric-Open Loop"
" Women are important to me 3 things . Then says her only two!
7th Push / Pull
When is "Attraction-game" it so it will take to get closer to someone, they balk. And when she tries to push away because they want a
you a challenge. to do both (in) can be confusing and creates tension for the woman.
push / pull so can most easily explained: "I like you like .... I do not .... wait, I think I like you .... No, I do not like you ... Although,
now I think about it, I like you .... Hmmm I'm not sure ... "
By her constantly in the conversation Recognition (pull) and that then takes it back (push) results in a uncertainty, the women
crazy. can
" You know, you're kinda sweet I think you would give ne good friend WAIT, you can cook I need a woman to cook Oh, you can: Here are some examples of push / pull are..? ? cook Wow, I'm impressed. but what can you cook? Oh, Thai? I do not know ... I like Thai though. But what else can you cook for? Italian? Aaaaah, now we see ourselves, I like you now already! But TASTES your Italian food is also that the question " is".
your
: You are my new friend. (Pause) Nee I habs mind about it is the end!
you: Why? your
: You are too much for loving me ... look at you ... did you already love me ... you do not know me again! "
you: OMG hahaha, no I'm not your
: I can see by your body language and how you laugh at my stupid jokes ... you're ... verlieeeeebt
" Oh, you have a degree NEN _______? Wow! I love intelligent women! That's funny. But you are too intellectual? I am not one for women who are too intellectual to be rather boring. Nevertheless, I find it quite interesting ______ would nice to know you better .
Something makes them think: "Oh, a compliment .... I got him! Um ... maybe not. Oh, he likes me anyway. Awww that's not good enough for him. So he does not like me now, or ".
You can also use your body language to push / pull to make. Show her just that you are interested by her hinlehnt you to it, showing enthusiasm, etc., then shows Lack of interest by their sit back, his arms crossed, looking bored, your body turns away from her, etc.
Push / Pull is an art which is to be treated with caution. Watch for the reaction of your target and do not overdo it. It should be easily frustrated because of your uncertain
behavior (this creates sexual tension), but if she is blowing her it irritated perhaps too far.
Here are some more examples of Push / Pull:
"bad conscience"
Bring them to do something and let them feel guilty for it. You want to kiss you, " I can not kiss you, you're like my little sister! That would be like incest . "Then she moves in with you and kisses her.
" good cop, bad cop "
be mean or condescending, and it immediately rebut a good opinion. It will then look for confirmation." You are so ____. You know, usually I have nothing to do with women who are ____ but you have good views so isses ok. We can continue to meet "
When your jacket / hat / etc will attract.." The only special people can wear "Give it to her for 30 seconds then take it away from her and let them take it back again. " is around! "
8th Role playing
Role-playing can easily bring it funny in a situation that has to do with you two. Role playing is very powerful since it first Fun second
point both of you as you make something in the future (even if the situations are obviously fictional).
Here are some examples of role play:
"Barbie and Ken" Your
: Look at us! We are so cool. We are like Barbie and Ken! calls (From now on you making the rest of the evening about Barbie and tries to to make them, that they call you Ken). I'm your Ken doll! I've even have a big advantage over Ken dolls.
you: would He? your
: Ken dolls are not complete!
your
: We can have our own Barbie house ... in the summer we do a Barbie barbecue in the garden with plastic meat on the grill. Barbie and our campers ... and you could be the pink Barbie Corvette, and I have to drive around in the area! We can not go with our top mounted plastic smile! (Makes a mounted laugh and keep it until it starts to laugh). on me show me your plastic smile! (Do not give up after she makes you both laugh and broken).
If she says she would not be pretty enough or it is not fair, you say " It's all ok! You do not have to be perfect to be fair and to be Barbie! You can view the new, politically correct Barbie! The Barbie the pimples get .... can not walk in high heels! Look at me, do I look to you as the perfect Ken? . (Pulls it on when she says something other than "Yes")
Swingcats's "Good Dog" RPG
? If you were a dog, what would a dog you are and why "
After she has answered you say." I like the kind of dog I would take you maybe even the pet store buying .
Then you say, when did you almost reversed, with a suspicious face: "But you Housebroken or are."
If they " No " says take her hands and she moves in with you as you you say, " Well then I take up with you Home .
you look in your eyes, hold their hands and squeezes it a bit away from you, " Are you an adventurous dog? ". If they" Unless I have to bring up the shelter
Yes "says she still draws her to get closer to you and says:" Good dog! (your here you can also pat on the head)
then embraces her and tells her that she is such a sweet dog, then it says. " Do you know why? "will" Why? "say what you will answer:" Because you remind me of Sammy "you will ask." Who is Sammy? . Tell her that Sammy was the only dog you have ever loved, but he had to be euthanized, and since it is almost as sweet as Sammy you call them now "number two".
Then she draws so close wanted to kiss her as you find them, you look in the eye and says: " Ieeeh ... you tried to kiss me and you're a dog! "
ninth higher social Value demonstrate
"The only rule is the pick-up is always clearly cooler than HB gamen that you want". - Tyler Durden, Cliff's List
If you are near them you should never treat them as if you need them or is looking desperately for recognition. No matter what you do, try not to "impress"
or try to behave as if you yourselves regrets because you want to continue to give your power. Give never share.
Displays leadership and authority in everything you do. Women are generally passive, ass-kisser, weak men unattractive. The something taught to self-assured, bold man Höer social value.
Give a woman never asks what the - unless it is in your interest. This includes answers to their questions.
condescending comments can be used by women of their platform push them around and show her that you are not intimidated and have higher value.
" Wow, you're sooooo cool Can I be your friend ? "
" You are so cute, you're like a little dog "
" You have such beautiful hair, like Lassie "
10. Show Desintresse, indifference
You must show her that you do not NEED. What they want is concerned, let them guessing whether or not. Behave as if it would matter to you whether you reject it, just behave as if you could leave at any moment without it would bother you. (Of course you can!)
More importantly, a woman pushes never get anywhere. You have an exceptionally attractive woman can be free space. Ye can not call every day, you have two days after she met her say that you love them, chasing it, always ask what she does, etc. You have the Woman's gift to the "miss you".
Squats not around at home and wonder what makes them or you can call and tell her how you "feel". Did she want a new girlfriend she'd get one. So do not behave like one. Desirable women want men who are INDEPENDENT and give her space. You have a pretty women actually already be TOO MUCH SPACE. You want the ones YOU is the calling and trying figure out what is going on with you.
11th take the leadership position
Always be the one who leads. Attractive women find men who are dominant and leadership have. See generally weak, arschrkiechende Piensbacken unattractive.
never ask for something (it gives a woman power). Instead uses mild commands. ("Do not you give me your number instead?" Hey, how is your number ", not" Shall we dance "but" Come we go dancing "as you take them by the hand and leads them?)
Another way. to get some opportunities or challenges is to create -.! it gives you the power of the Commission does not challenge or opportunity, bad luck never ask for something, it leads to rather give it to you
never give her something, reward it. prefer. they Will not you give something, you give a reason, she calls out.
Be decisive and show that you have the control. Show her that you are authoritarian - in all situations. If the decisions as often as possible (even YOU if it is acceptable - as with the drink order at the bar).
12th C / F & funny comments and themes
to use humor is essential. "When you get to laugh, the rest is easy"
The best approach is to use humor in Komination audacity to flirt with something to do with them or raise them. This sends the right signals. It signals the woman "I'm not intimidated, and your Beauty startled me not. It is also true that I feel close to you so well that I can make myself even in a friendly way fun of you. "
Although David DeAngelo recommends that you should do in C / F has a serious expression, I find . that a small note on the sarcasm and a slight smile works better, it makes you seem more playful here as an asshole
Some C / F samples.
Stretches her your hand to help her as opposed to out of the car fürhen them over a low wall, etc. Keep your hand a little longer, she pulls away when you say, "Hey , holding hands do not exist! "
if they return to a club / bar / lounge telling where it goes always," So cool's can not be there "(" Why not ? ")" Because I've never heard of it .
" Just because you're nice to me is that not so long that I will sleep with you. Do you mean I would be so cheap? Really! "
to women at work or women working somewhere," How you ever want your work get ready if you constantly flirt with me? I know I'm a horny stallion but does not think that I'll help you if you lose your job! "
After you've met a woman," I know it is fun to me but am not a stalker and please call me 50 times a day, "If they
. makes fun of himself:
you: " I'm such a fool " or "My hair looks terribly " or " My lipstick does not look good, right? "
your" I wanted to say anything! "
OR
you:" My hair looks terribly "
your" That you can say out loud! "(with a joking tone)
your
: I need to get ready
you. Where are you going
you? You invite me to nem Drink a
you. my hair looks better when I have it NEN braid or without ? Your
: Does not look good at both.
you: HEY! * slap on the shoulder, etc. *
" you can continue to play it cool but I know deep inside you you love me .
" So ne chance you will not get every day .... with so nem horny guy like me hanging out .
you: What happens in love? your
: schonmal Have you heard of James Bond?
OR
you: Na hit you up with someone special? your
: What do you mean special? So I would not describe that as of "special" ... unless you're talking of "not the best horse in the stable" for yes in the case, I am meeting with some "special" women.
you: (Will you embrace) your
: Awwww look at you, you want me!
your
: How do you get out that I want to sleep with you?
you: What ??????
your: I think you have the batteries in your miracle ear change
If she has a really crooked posture, sit down extra up straight and says, " I guess you really at your posture work ".
Each time, when it passes by you, says aloud: " Knock it off to me on the long ass "
" Hey, do not grab " (after you touch added)
you: (Say something intelligent)
your: Wow, you're pretty schlau....für ein MÄDCHEN!
Wenn sie noch zu Hause wohnt zieht sie damit auf, dass sie Hausarrest oder Sperrstunde hat.
Was auch sehr gut funktioniert ist, auf Warum? Wieso? Wo? einfach mit "Ja" zu antworten.
C/F Antworten auf Komplimente:
" Wow, du stehst ziemlich auch mich! "
" Ich bin nicht wie andere Männer. Das Kompliment bringt dir überhaupt nichts "
" Ach du machst mir schon Komplimente, was? Schau, lass uns den Teil überspringen...kauf mir nen Drink "
" I'm cute? You are too sweet. What will you do about it? "
you: Nice shirt / pants / etc
you.! Thank You want it / take it off me
you? You are so _____
your: I give people only what they want
"Caveman" C / F:..
"Caveman Ning" is a playful physical art to wind it up It's kind of naughty movies .
Examples:
- Hockey Body Check moderate
- take something small and you so as to slap the ass! A towel, napkin, straw, etc.
- water on them
- tickle attack
- inject a little fight with her
- give a slap on the ass when she is naughty
13th use "fluff talk" to bridge Attraction tips
If you meet a woman who finds her attractive you should always try their "Attraction Points (AP) 'to achieve their points of interest on which is the highest. Playing with her a role on the game it is received is one such AP. After a certain time, this weakened AP (eg you can role play not continue forever). You must keep your lively interaction. "Fluff talk" is a way to get a conversation between AP's consent. Fluff Talk helps you the attention and interest of the woman to keep until you have the opportunity or a time window in which you can again apply a technique or Attraction issues.
Hold the Fluff Talk FUNNY! Not fall victim to a boring, interview excessive discussion: Where did you grow up, what are you working where you were in school, blah blah blah. These questions are BLAH! Each AFC she asks reduce these boring, unoriginal questions the spirits. You should be with her the impression that it's fun to be with you together and that should continue to talk to you. AVOID BORING TOPIC!
If it is inappropriate to be funny, then say something about what inspires her feelings. Women see the world through their emotions and are rarely miss an opportunity to discuss emotions, especially what men and women and affects relations / dating.
If you're really asking these common issues, should be trying to ask then C / F as possible.
14th Storytelling
an interesting, funny story that happened to tell you is even as the VALUE. You show that you have an interesting life and have experienced some interesting things in your past.
It is not important to specify. You want value SHOW. If something happens in your story, what could be interpreted as a value for the woman, then it says "it's part of story times to" moderate. For example, if the woman says that she is learning to ski and you are randomly instructors. The wrong way would be to say " Hey, I'm instructors " sit back and proud to an "ooooh, aaaah" waiting response. Used rather a story and let it fall casually: " Cool I know when I've started yet ... * hahaha * ... I've been studying, and there was this 200 kilo- man in the group of DETERMINED had to learn to ski ... Of course he came down 10 meters to the mountain before's has executed hit him. The guy has almost triggered an avalanche! Three people had to put him on the stretcher down lift on the mountain and when she pushed into the ambulance, the car .... have collapsed .
If you tell a story, playing with your voice, facial expressions and body language to emphasize different points. This is very important for an entertaining story. Take for instance "this 200 pound man," says a good storyteller would tear open his eyes and his arms spread out and say, " this ... TWO HUNDRED KILOS .... .... MANN ! "
You should be 2 or 3 interesting stories have in mind which you can tell at any time for a meeting to revive. Fluff Talk gives you plenty of opportunities to draw on a topic and then make a story. Should not that be the case, you can still have philosophical detours to this story (s) come to smash. In "Want to do things You know, it's funny how many people are oblivious to their own borders ': case history could tell you from above.
15th attention to sexual issues
The fastest way to make a woman horny is to talk to her about sex. If a woman tells her: "Think of sex and horny" you'll either be laughed at or you will get a red cheek. incorporated simply by the omission of sexual themes comes to her the desired result. You might even get to the point where it feels so as though they have sex. And who will that be? If are driven her a good game then you'll be there! Even if you did that night, no intimate relationship with her, you have at least shown that you are a sexual being that feels secure in the subject. It will also connect you with these horny feelings which may be useful for future meetings will be.
In every interaction is a good time to switch to sexual topics. The woman is usually enough time to give you interject sexual comments and sometimes even waiting to have their ansprecht the subject of sex (according to ASD - "anti-slut defense" - it was your fault)
Once you ansprecht the subject of sex , begins slowly before you get to the harder stuff. Here are some examples that start you can:
- you tell that your work colleagues are always talking only about sex
- ? Do you have any sex addicts friends "she asked shortly after her answer:" Sexsüchtig Are YOU? "If they" say, "No Not even a little? " If they have stirred up something you say " Hmmmm, you disappoint me! "If you are searching for your confirmation or liked will be could get them to talk about sex.
Keep your ears for ambiguities and to throw in front of her, that she will try to seduce you even though you did not know you
: I get tired I think I have to go to bed soon your
: bed? I know not even if you kiss ever know how to ... and you're trying to get me into bed?
" Hey, I open a club. - The anonymous people think about sex all day - Will you enter the species most likely to meet in giant orgies of .... but we are trying to control. (If they " Yes ") says " Well, we ham a limit and you have to PROVE that you deserve to become a member. How are you horny? ( If they " No ") says " It may also be better if you do not enter. We need really great people in the group and I think you do not bring it! "
" I'm not good enough for you. I can only offer you hours and hours of fun. You need more than that you need a (Point to any one guy in the room) nice guy the flowers you buy, up to eat out, you make gifts. I will only spoil "
your
. Wow, you wear the ring on her finger You know what that says about you
you?? No
your : Did you ever Sex in the elevator
you? Haha, No your
: Should you try it
you!: What is your favorite ice cream?
you: blabla your
: And where can you lick it to you the most? Is You know what the greatest fantasy of women?
" (you will not know it)" I just can not tell you I have to say it will show so you can experience it [«go very close to it]." what it must be strong and dangerous adventure with someone, and so does that make "back. [ her ear grab and pull at her hair]. (If she gets goose bumps, what they should really) " Oh, sorry, I have to turn you into a quivering, horny bitch? "
" I like how you spread your legs when you sit ... it would just look so much better if you are a mini skirt and no underwear anhättest "
" means maybe I'm looking for ONS . An ONS only gave me made it not fun enough to make it repeat again "
bring out the bisexuality of women
After you've talked a bit about sex can steer you to the subject bisexuality. There are different ways for this:
ask: " on what type of woman you are standing NEN ?" short and direct. Do not Trip on the question "Are you bi?". Most women hate this "title" and will say no, even if they find women sexually attractive.
jokingly: " Well, have you met any interesting men here have no Ah, you're here to meet WOMEN ?"
If the issue can been put on the table and you talk continuous duty it hereby continuing:
. bisexual women attract me the most because the more open we are, you are funnier and better in bed you are adventurous and in accordance with their sexuality, you understand that women are sexual beings ... " If the woman is now so feels that she needs to prove himself and you, she will make it obvious or subtle notes that women sexually attractive. Once they did that, it must remain congruent. More persuasion necessary? " you will not be jealous if you look at other women. Actually it is even so that they notice the women first: and without petty jealousies in a relationship but it is much easier to open and honest with each other as friends and as beloved, and to really be able to "connected" to be .
If she admits that she bisexual is " Oh, I understand you totally. Women are wonderful creatures, I am the last of the accusations you make that you find her attractive! ( blah blah ")" Technically, I'm a lesbian "
they ask whether it is more to men or women. If she admits that while at women "may" but more likes Men says: "! exactly do you like women but you need still nen tail "
If you ask a woman whether she is bisexual, she'll ask yourself whether it's you:
You: Are you? your
: No
you: Why not ? your
: It's like yin and yang. Men have YANG energy - to irritate dominant and easily. YANG two energies do not match. If you see gay couples as you never see two dominant men. You see always a dominant, masculine man and a submissive, feminine man or two submissive men. Women have YIN energy, it is a very sexually nurturing energy. In our culture it is suppressed, most definitely .
16th dominance consolidate and Shit-tests around
women test men for various reasons and it's usually a subconscious process. Attractive women have a number of ways and prefer men have a strong character. If you were an attractive woman is desired by hundreds of men, how would you get rid of the loser? Her she would TRY to consider in subtle tests the strength and personality. If you would do on a regular basis would you subconsciously and automatically perform these tests.
women will test you ALWAYS! Live with it, learn to handle it.
The more a woman is attracted more they will test him. Women do not go to 90-year-old men and say, "You idiot!" and beat them playfully on the arm. You are also not terribly deformed to a guy in the wheelchair and say, "You are very fond of you, huh?". They do that for men they find attractive! Women are usually friendly and nice to people they do not attract so you order the social principles. Oh, and if a woman is overly friendly and nice, that's a bad sign. If they test you but by you, idiot or ass is called, is a sign that you have aroused some interest in her and she wants to see whether this is justified. How do you know
that a woman is testing you? If their lips move! Ehrlich to find out whether a woman is testing you, makes sure as anything she ever says you can feel. Every time their words or actions to challenge you or force you to do or dagen this is a test. Every time they tried to take the lead ("Call me on Thursday and I'll tell you whether I accept your invitation on Friday), it is probably a test
It is important to know how to deal with female test This is a STANDARD TEST:..
Once you show a woman that she can manipulate you, loses any sexual interest in you. You MUST regain control, be the man! can
Most tests ignore it easy. You do not have the answer to everything. So when you test (let's say she calls you idiot), can her smile just pretend she never said anything and continue with your conversation. The same principle you can apply even if it is overly emotional, or a drama begins. Continues as usual (humor is to incorporate in test situations also very effective). To show you how to ignore tests work I give you here an example of a real conversation I had with a HB and her friend in her living room. The conversation was mainly about what a player she is and how badly they treated the men they angraben.
OFB: (to HB). I could tow up REALLY easy in nem club I have the perfect Anmachspruch "
HB: (incredulous) Oh really?
OFB: At first I was going to the other end of the room looking into the eyes at the other end. Then I would smile and come over to you ...
HB: Who says I would look at you?
OFB: Then I would look you in the eyes and you remove the hair from the ear ...
HB: Hello! "Personal freedom", I would never let you do that!
friend: Exactly, never!
OFB: Then I would lean to you, and you the perfect Anmachspruch ear whisper (LONG PAUSE, then mischievous smile, and when I got my best "bedroom voice" ready to do) - I HAVE THE HAGUE-Dazs caramel ice CREAM IN MY FREEZER COMPARTMENT -
HB: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! This would even work! And it were cookie dough ice cream was, I was in front of you you!
you look at the dynamics of the conversation. Although she has tested me 3 times within 30 seconds (and support her friend), I'm simply not engaging with it I say what I wanted to say.
Another way to Tests fertig zu werden ist ihr den Test vorweg zu nehmen! Wenn ihr sie mit vielen Männern reden seht sagt: " Du bist so ein Player! Schau dich an ". Oder wenn sie darüber redet wie ihr etwas zusammen macht: " Woher weißt du dass ich mit dir rumhängen will? " (Eigentlich sind die meisten C/F Sprüche Tests. Wenn ihr seht, dass sie durchrasselt hat sie euren Test nicht bestanden). Der Grund ist, dass ihr ihr den Test-Frame vorher wenehmt.
Hier noch eine Möglichkeit: Beim ersten anzeichen eines Tests, versohlt ihr den Arsch und nennt sie "Freche Göre, etc.". Es ist nicht in allen Situationen angebracht But sometimes you get so through (especially if you're alone)
If a woman is testing you, by speaking of other men with whom it has or what she does with another man in front of your eyes, Tell her how much you would have she is with other men because men are not made to be together forever. Regardless of what type they are talking (to make you jealous), you recommended to sleep with him. If they return to back tests with " I mean nothing to you " says simply, " I am the only man you've ever taken where you mean to ENOUGH and gives you your freedoms . This will "prescribe the symptoms" - take some practice and says that you do not like her do more to
Shit Test response. " Where did you get the award? Sex and the City? "
If a woman wants you to do something for her or buy her something:" Ok, I'll make you an offer. I'll do X if you like me a 1-hour massage with hot oil, beautiful music and candlelight give "Do not forget the C / F undertone but appear nevertheless seriously
you.. I hate it when you hold me inflates
your: Und wieso siehst du mich immer so sehnsüchtig an wenn ich es tue?
Entschuldigt euch für nichts. Das bedeutet nicht "Seid ein Arsch" aber zeigt ihr, dass ihr euch gegen ihre Kritiken wehrt
Sie: Ich mag dein shirt nicht!
Ihr: OK, zieh's mir aus.
Wenn eine Frau versucht euren C/F Spruch zu kontern: " Wenn du nur so süß wärst wie deine Sprüche "
Sie: Bist du ein Player?
Ihr: Well, I like to play with you (NEN slap then you give up the ass or touched them in a more intimate area if you have sex Did)
you do make a C / F comment. She says: " You're an idiot . You say, " You are such a easy target "
A good way to "You are the answer to such a test is _______" to smile and simply say," you want me! / You love me "
you! You are so _____ your
: THEREFORE Do you like me so aaaaaaaaah .... may
If she says something they do not make more and give back to her. " I do not like the station " power louder and smiles at her. You have no ass so you can be quiet later make
Show her just that it does not you can control and act independently of their opinion.
you: All right, I'm off! your
: Ok, take care that the door hits you on the ass net.
Mostly they had no plans to Ghen - it was a TEST.
17th behave with insolent, bad deal
Do not hesitate to eject from a set, or to go on a date when all the time behaves impudently and it does not look like it, they will stop. If necessary, go away. You adopted from the set, hangs up the phone, or makes you ready to go and says: ". You know, it does not work for me any more I think I'll take you home I just go and then neuro-sedative "
outbursts
Reply to emotional outbursts, " So, how much war I my babysitting? "or" has pulled the stuff at Daddy? Why has he not often spanked the ass? "or" you coming to the behavior of the time? Or only for men with no backbone? "
Or you make fun of her stupid behavior," Wow, you have this sour made his thing really to his art form. Works of other great people? "or" If you continue like verhälst ne Rotzgöre I'll spank your ass as it should for one! "
18th Flakes
" Flake "means that a woman will not appear on a date or not answer the phone. Basically, it means they fooled you and wasting your time.
When hope was high (you did it well gegamed, she has given you her number, etc. any signs of interest towards you doing now) but now she seems to have been swallowed by the earth. Show her that you do not behave tolerated and just because you saw potential for both of you you give her one last chance. If they dare to do it ever again it is bye-bye and BAM! blow-door time. men with many choices or men with little opportunity to consider their time as valuable would be to deduct the women something not even a second chance.
The only mailbox / AB would be the message should you ever leave. " Hi HB Here is PUA I just wanted to say how disappointed I am about the fact that you have not called me because.. I see potential for us I'll give you one last chance. So, sign up .
19th LJBF - Let's Just Be Friends
If you Attracter when the poor woman Labour have done or maybe you did that for a while but then went downhill and it was your game you may soon hear boring this proposal: "Let's just be friends".
Should a woman ever block the development of relationship do by saying this saying discharges her, " No thanks, I have enough friends . When you commit to this relationship you stand out even as a man who has nothing better to do than hang out with a woman that is not really interested in you. The relationship is never dorthinführen where you want to have them - to bed.
A very flattering answer: "I see you as a friend not. I see you as a woman - a very sensual and intelligent woman. But I will not apologize. If you want me to make one of your friends I'm not interested .
Once you're all distanced themselves from such a relationship reached her that you are one of the relationship, that you have several women who love to be on your conditions go and that they will lose. is not unusual to turn a man's whole relationship soon see the woman that he is willing to "walk" rather than accept something that contradicts his terms.
give When are you a woman? When a decision her that a relationship has not evolved? If it is the only of the relationship are still trying to get on. If they invested in you, no energy, take it as notice and nexted them. Do not stay where you are not allowed. If you come into this situation, trying to figure out what was the reason. How has she seen you? What has been stoned them? Learn from your mistakes.
Another tactic you can apply that you are on the way to LJBF country: Brecht COMPLETE contact for a few months after. When you "back" is you can usually start again from scratch. You will likely be an alien as a "good friend".
If you opt for it to keep them as a friend, is because of your conditions. Tell her that you will treat them as your buddies, that they will help you to meet other women, and that you meet in front of her with other women. If she refuses saying: "All right ... I'll have my time offered on sexual level and on platonic level, you've just rejected .... BOTH ... WHY WOOL TEST YOU TAKE WITH ME .? .
" Ok ... it was a good friend and ask me some of your hot girlfriends before .
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