Direct Game - A Guide
Direct game is a synonym for "I like you" and "BE ALPHA"
mASF is full of simultaneously successful independent methods that are effective when they are congruent is.
We all use many methods whose strength is primarily determined by the congruence ourselves. People have a tendency to gravitate to methods (it takes someone) that are natural to them, or give a direct meaning for them.
It's great when I work with a newbie, I will usually encourage him to a method where it is initially feels comfortable.
BUT, because I'm a fool, obsessed with PU, I like to try new things all the time, and experiment with all kinds of styles. Continue to experiment with something other than that you will use to push, your abilities, your method Widens of the world and forces you in a new way to grow.
example, as I first met Dimitri, I was shocked.
The first thing I said to myself was, "This is not routine, this is Dimitri." Then I thought
"This guy can not possibly succeed SO!" (No attack my friend, just first impressions!)
My own success comes from a Natural Style which was heavily influenced by the dominant crew here on mASF, what I saw on the day threw at me. His style was unique and fresh. Completely spontaneous and completely his own, I could be game not a bit set in conjunction with the main direction of the ASF Games.
He broke all the rules and had an extreme indifference to the current model, and trends.
If we were to open a 3-set, as I demonstrated power and unity of opinion bring Openers, Dimitri would come in and ONE OF THE GIRLS TO BE PHYSICALLY AND TAKE YOU AROUND SWING! And THEY LOVED IT! People who went through the mall were shocked, but he does not care - no one was important EXCEPT HE HIMSELF.
That's what an alpha is really doing exactly what he wants without hesitation and completely convinced that it will work.
We brought most of the summer thus to bury on the weekends. Starting Friday night, went there directly to Sunday evening - see the back it was probably not a healthy thing to do this, but I learned a lot from him and hopefully he learned from me. Most of the time we spent in malls and on the streets of Boston - it was pure, unadulterated Daygame.
As a result of it I had to invent a new method to even comprehend what Dimitri was there. (My balance Attraction with Value post is a good example and really it is a recommended prerequisite to this article)
have Over time I have thought for all types of methods matters -. Methods for Natural Style, "indirect" Style, Pimp Game (post from which my demonstration vs. verbalization one. part, is to create a physical scarcity, is more interesting by adding non-sexual things you get from (See Dimitri's supply and demand supply and demand for more of this post), etc. ..) a mixture of other methods of approaching Styles, etc. .. but all this material is the content for a bid!
So here, without any detours, that's a crash course for the PU-style which I prefer:
DIRECT GAME
I. Who can use direct game? Why use direct game?
Direct game is a game based on value and self respect / self-respect is based.
It is based on honesty and disregard for social development.
It is completely useless for any take-away where you intend to manipulate interest, direct lifting of interest, and disrespect. My opinion is, the game can be directly used by anyone ESPECIALLY newbie because of the simplicity, efficiency and congruence with the intentions of the newbies. Furthermore, people may
Direct game because it will allow hair was too self-assured without pretending that one hard-to-get.
It is very effective in girls who have high moral standards and yet were not in the Party Chick-rail. Usually the girls are passionate in one aspect of their lives, and had maybe 1 or 2 LTR. It tends to work less in girls who have been emotionally damaged by countless other players who have desensitized them to estimate the attraction based by repeated cycles of attention and indifference. She had been exposed to the intense and crippling physical attraction, and despite the fact that they know that it's bad for it is, you could not resist. There are also
many girls who have experienced this, but have decided that they no longer want, and this method will work with them very well.
As a side note, direct game is a GREAT FRAME to create a relationship. It can also set a good foundation to indirect game to move or convert to pimp-style game. Conversely, if you start off with indirect or pimp-style game, it is near impossible to move on to direct.
II Indirect Vs. Direct Game
The main difference between indirect and direct game is mainly technical. This is also why direct effective, but effective in many ways MORE than indirect game. One difference is the frame of the opener.
Earlier theories supported the effectiveness of the Opinion set out the opener they "use" the girl almost for an opinion, while you are demonstrating high value in some way.
Direct Opener ASSUME (accept) that you have high value, and your body language, style, tone and facial expression have to be congruent.
You also are demonstrating your direct interest to the girls. It is not purely sexual or purely platonic, it is simultaneously both. If you can not bring SIMULTANEOUSLY ready to show sexual and platonic interest, keep it up probably horny / needy or gay.
IMO there are two ways of views Opener bring.
The first is a lack of interest WRONG - it seems that he is more concerned about their real opinion as to connect to it.
The other way is that you used the expression opener as a formality to provide only a context in which two people can connect to. So in light of the latter is currently the theoretically correct indirect technique, we see that in the group of response, the only difference is a technical aspect of the response.
The exact difference between direct vs. indirect game is the fact that MAN OF A POSITION OF POWER FROM THE QUALIFICATION CORRECTLY.
you take the initiative to make things happen and drive the seduction. If you expect that it will respond positively to your lack of indifference, you can not respond positively to their lack of indifference. Respond to positive their indifference!
If you direct game play, and she tries to manipulate your interest in playing the game or else they ignored you, you CAN NOT BE POSITIVE RESPONSES! That is supplication, and supplication is not a part of good direct OR indirect game.
In general, also, I must add the direct and indirect style not only are both there and there are many overlaps.
good game is good game!
Direct:
- the method is congruent with the interest.
- with a Persistently absolute security.
- qualification from a position of power.
indirect:
- method that is congruent with the lack of interest.
- Can they chase you
-Takeaways and general manipulation of Attraction.
III. Beliefs / Mindsets / Frames
As stated previously, self-confidence and self respect are in Direct Game of the utmost importance. Without it, you'll see the mistakes they make on the position of weakness to qualify from.
You will tolerate her games, and persist despite their disregard for your own person. Was a weak to have is the reason why people make the mistake of kissing her ass to tolerate them with compliments to shower and their shit when they think they "go straight". This is not at all what it should be. There is a balance.
Best Mindset for the direct game, it is an alpha to be. This is known as the KEY for direct game. Although it is an important element of the method but not the method itself
"Be Alpha" basically means to take what you want WITHOUT HESITATION.
Think about when you're home and you get food from the fridge want. Hesitate writing a second when you're really hungry? No. You simply go and take it. When will a shopping center is full of women from your fridge you take what you like, then you have it my friend.
I use a slightly different frame with girls, which I use directly. During the "annoying little sister frame" great for indirect game is the "dear little daughter take care of myself and save the" frame for direct game is excellent. You are strong but tender, compassionate and loving.
IV Body Language / Tonality / Facial Expression
How any good game is discussed in mASF, slow and relaxed Körsprache is very important.
The only difference is the opener, you look to the girl's face as you get across the opener. This is congruent with your interest in her. The tone should be deep and resonant / resonant. Your facial expression should be different and interesting, but relaxed.
V. Opener
There are three different types of openers that I use.
1) Hi, how are you?
2) You're beautiful. I would get to know you. / Can I join you? (Shark)
3) This shirt ...... (On Wait for an answer) It is a great fit to your style. (Credit for this goes to Razor Opener Jack)
your non-verbal communication should be congruent with your interest. Of course your overall intention clear in all three of these.
Remember SIMULTANEOUS SEXUAL AND INTERESTS PLATON.
Bring the opener and move on to Vibing.
VI. Vibing and connecting:
A. Traditional Rapport Vibing
Vibing When it comes to the energy of the moment. The sense of interaction (Vibing) is more important than the content. The Vibing with a girl takes you to a feeling that you have a natural connection. Man can ALL talk or tell stories or jokes, even about work. Yes you can talk about your work if you can make the VIBE. It invites your interaction with emotion and excitement.
as storytelling (Storytelling) demonstrate / value.
typical storytelling and DHV models get along well with direct game. I point to Wilder's storytelling usually post as a guideline.
C. Screening (screening)
Vibing should have a screening mood. While you demonstrate that you are picky, and have other options, but you chose, do you have an immense value to scoop up and qualify them at the same time. For more see Neo-Rio's recent screening post.
D. C + F (?)
There is a debate. if you can use C / F and other slightly debasing techniques in a direct frame. I use C / F with my direct method. There are two things to which we should remember.
First, the success of C / F more of the girls dependent than style-dependent. If a girl responded well to C / F, I use it.
Secondly, c / f should be used in a gentle, playful frame. Your frame should not be - "I do this and to increase Attraction", but "You give the gift of laughter, because I am to they care ".
Your words can be a bit derogatory, but FUNNY and you say it in a warm tonality and the lift due to your facial expressions.
VII
Qualification Qualification is a HUGE part of direct game.
It's great non-physical things like her sense of style, humor, or the fact that it is really and truly qualify. The key to qualification is congruent to BE WITH THE CONTENTS (delivery).
If you tell her that you feel comfortable up than any other girl you've met before recently, your tonality, body language and actions should IT SHOULD BE OUT. Furthermore, an incredible vibe to have a girl is actually more effective than anything you could tell her. The vibe is much more important than the content that you share with her. You tell her that you like her, and she believes you this because it feels the same!
VIII Timing / persistence / space
I describe the timing of contacts and it corresponds to as "Serene perseverance." You are clear about maintaining your sexual and platonic interest, but you're not so focused on results. It is constantly at your schedule and give a particular girl is not too much importance. In general, see it once or twice a week and call for 2 - or 3-times in a week.
Once you have achieved the necessary change, they will expend the effort to contact you and see you, and it will not be important what you do not.
But before the change, if it is disrespectful towards your non-interest Employ and phone calls, give her a break of several weeks and try again.
not be afraid that persistence will come across as needy. It is not the technique of direct games which lowers your value.
The things that your value is lower telegraphed Neediness. Each Subkommunikation of low degree of emotions such as fear, anger, resentment or Hostility through your tonality or your actions will show this.
As long as you take steps to clean up from these negative emotions, your communication will evolve and you leave a strong and confident impression.
Be persistent in the physical presence of a girl when it comes to the needy cast you because you give her all the attention and not playful enough are.
also show the above-mentioned negative emotions while you stay physically insistent that you are not congruent and cost you the respect you you have the opposite her up.
eskalierst best if you physically with absolute certainty that they will enjoy it. And if it does not - do not let it affect your state. Chill a bit, enjoy yourself and try it again later.
room is the way that doubt is an introduction into the mind of the girl. This can not really explain it. Space enhances the good feelings you give her when you were together. There is also a way establish an indirect social proof.
Have a good time with her and nurse your own life. Let the feelings for you grow in it.
IX.Verwandlung:
transformation occurs when you repeatedly had sex with her (I would say 1 to 5 times) Thus, the physical pleasure she associates with you and the society programmed fears and fears losing the intimate experience in a relationship normally.
If you applied directly to Game will Flaken they usually do not, after sex with you longer or make a fuss. Because you have used direct game, your success largely depends on your value (again, this is a sign post on my Attraction and Value). want
The nice thing, you can create the basis of direct game, and in any direction you go. If you want Malays other women, you can go on to indirect game and they tries to get them regain the initial attention you have given her. If you want kulitiveren a healthy and fulfilling relationship, permanent addition to direct game and add tension as necessary. This kind of versatility in most other game styles do not exist.
-game you can switch from direct to indirect game at any time.
X. Final
is my friend, is a fundamental congruent model for direct game.
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