This contribution is largely a merit of Regular John.
conditions:
- you can easily maintain eye contact with anyone
- 2 eggs were not bad
preparation:
not you draw into the war, although some of you would rather do that than to talk a woman. Their heads off to have fun. Therefore
take your cell phone and some (chewing) gum with and off you go.
may bring an MP3 player.
drive to use public transportation, so you you get used to the crowds.
forget it, to look at your clock or on a schedule.
Just ask the people. They are friendly and eager to answer you.
way you interact with your environment from the beginning.
If your response fear when:
you Take quietly for half an hour.
Put on the headphones from your MP3 player.
Enjoy your favorite music.
walks through the streets and keep all passers
especially women,
friendly but determined eye contact.
You will see that men and unattractive women are doing just
in you nothing but
at attractive women ... because you feel these feelings,
this urge to talk to her,
this feeling which is stronger
per more attractive the woman is
this feeling which is growing stronger, the closer you come
the woman.
All you have to do is to "stop" to say
and headphones to decrease.
The more you think about it, the more you discover
this alleged Ansprechangst in reality
you, deep in your subconscious, is an urge,
attract attractive women.
This "Bähm" feeling.
accept and love that feeling. produce
Before I Approach
eye contact.
go slow on the woman.
If she says your eye contact, smiling slightly
.
II Stop
Here you have several options.
important thing is that your case equally dominant,
as well as friendly since.
a) Stop
(where a gesture similar to a police officer who stops a car) b
) "Sorry"
(where the hand is pointing down and the palm is turned up,
this is originally a gesture that shows that their unarmed / dangerous since)
If necessary, it is absolutely in order to easily stop the inward lean too
and women to block the direct path a bit.
After the woman has stopped, you should immediately you slightly lean back. This shows her that you do not intrusive since.
Now you can about an arm's length from her stay
or introduce you to her side, shoulder to shoulder.
If your side you will, is the distance to the very small woman, she feels that without
concentrated.
cinema in this way is also natural.
you did not you married the woman to speak directly helps variant c)
c) "Sorry, I have not previously dared to speak out,
but I can not let you go without having told you know that. .
(this option is very natural, and is particularly suitable for the advanced, get to hear the
often if they had practiced it)
III break
Very important is a Pause, the woman is the possibility to adjust to you.
a) "I know I like to touch you in the middle of the street"
b) "Even if I do it right in the middle of the road reach a"
c) "You certainly have to continue the same and hey, I must also continue the same"
IV Qualify / blaming
The qualifying is very important when direct game, so the wife knows the reason, why have you addressed them.
a) "I think you have what, I do not know yet what, but I'm going to find it"
b) "I think you have a great charisma"
c) "Wow, you're sweet"
d) "How can you answer for it to be so sexy.
V Presentation
"I will / will meet you ... I'm NeRom "(handshake and a little longer time,
maintain friendly eye contact as she calls her name)
95% of all women react the thing positive to very positive,
even if they were before the approach seems ill-tempered.
principle here: The more attractive the woman, the more positive the reaction.
The remaining women had either a shit day, or are
LSE and can not handle compliments.
Pleased I want your women have this sorted out so quickly.
VI Attraction
Attraction have you been through the Direct Approach
dominant and friendly and your Body Language.
VII report
Basic rapport you can establish very quickly and easily.
a) has responded positively and smiles
"Hey Sara, you know what? Look at all the times people who are bad-tempered over the place running, lowered head down and the view ... However, you're standing in front of me and smile. I think you're (like me) a very positive person. "
(This is the side next to your her. Look in the same direction as them. Touched her back with one hand. Displays the other hand on the crowd.)
b) reacted sceptically
"Hey Sara, I think you're the first man reacts cautiously and monitored. To me it's just as if I'm meeting new people. "
By now, the ice will be broken.
VIII isolate
you can at any time during the woman Approaches isolated easily by you say, "Hey, I think we the people stand in your way. We should just go once to the side. "
IX" I have a friend "
this phrase you will often hear the direct game.
It can mean:
a) Lack of Attraction / Rapport
b) Shit-Test
c) She has a friend
solutions
If that sentence after trying to Close it, it is likely
variant a) and you have in your set yet
invest some time in rapport-building.
Attraction is also a question of charisma.
This comes automatically with each set, what do you do.
Do you think that it is a shit test, submits
"So what?, Me too."
Do you think that you really a friend,
briefly on your Reality Reviews
"Hey, I want you also do not steal
/ take it to you, but you know."
X Close
a) No attempt.
The worst variant. You have made this pretty girl and now hopes
you drop it just like a hot potato.
How can you even still night sleep?
b) NC
weak because you have to enter on the phone again from scratch in the game.
"I have now, unfortunately, continue, but I would like to see you again unconditionally"
(hold out cell phone numbers can type)
If their number is not want to give up:
aa) "Do not worry, I'll call you only 30 times a day."
(make your points to a C & F way your want your reality and not a stalker since versteht
)
bb) "I would you really get to know "
(Persistence often leads to success)
cc) In the NC: (friendly)". I'll call you only once.
Unless you go ran, I expect you to Recall "
(keep your sets the frame that you have your principles and the price since)
c) Instant-Date
The best option, find your desired Your Game can continue. Since
makes your direct game, here you can do whatever you feel like.
"Hey, You make me curious ... read us go drink a coffee"
leads her to a coffee shop.
XI calibration
calibration is the most important in the direct game.
is helpful to have a wing that you can provide feedback.
Too small voice ensures that the woman does not stand still
and you may be ignored. to
A loud voice can make sure that you feel uncomfortable when all the passers-by noticed the
Approach.
ideal is a normal voice, security and tranquility. should also
on your body language Your Wing , Eighth example,
that you are not constantly rejects pure.
is important, once the woman has stopped, the
you take your time, but, say what you want. Otherwise it looks
hectic or as if you've learned it by heart.
XII Other
course you can always Smalltalk, C &F; apply cold reading, etc., as it adjusts to your
Still the best.
also experimented with frames, for example, "Wow, this woman wants to know I really";
"What a nice man," "You want to kiss me" etc.
With thanks to John Regular and the community,
NeRom
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